I read these two articles on modesty and just want to share them and have them handy for when I want to read them again.
The perspective is great, because I grew up hearing that it was my responsibility as a girl to make sure boys weren't lusting over me. It's good to hear another perspective on how that teaching hurts both men & women.
Modesty: A Response to Common Misunderstandings
How the Modesty Doctrine Hurts Men, Too